Our World. (By: Jess)

Welcome to "our world". It may not be prefect or routine or done exactly the way it's supposed to be, but it's OURS. Here is a glimpse into the everyday lives of.....us.

Weekdays
5:00-6:00am- Mom gets up, gets showered, gets dressed, puts on make-up, does hair, makes coffee, packs lunch, checks facebook, (sometimes) preps dinner, and gets the dog's breakfast ready. (cause Dad will gag and almost barf if he has to touch, smell, or come close to dog food.)

6:00-6:30am- Dad, Cece, Leo, and Gertie get up. Dad and Mom help kids wake up, give kisses, get Leo some milk, turn on Mickey Mouse, clean up Gertie's "morning duty", get kids diapers changed, get kids dressed, put Cece in car seat, load the car van, kiss everyone goodbye, slowly back up the car van so the side mirror doesn't get knocked off, and take off down the street.

7:15-7:20am- Arrive at Miss Wendy's

7:30am-3:30pm- Mom spends her day with  13 and 14 years olds... trying her best to make them model citizens of today's society, and squeeze in a little South Carolina History on the side (IF there's time)

3:30-3:45pm- Mom picks up kids from Miss Wendy's.

4:30-4:45pm- Arrive home to Lazy Willow Drive. Park in driveway, cause driving the car van into the garage "exactly right" is left up to Dad. Bring the youngest child into the house first. Drop her off in the kitchen in her car seat. Go back out and get the oldest child and carry him into the house. (usually because 1.) he is asleep or 2.) if I allow him to walk into the house by himself, he will most likley end up at the end of the driveway or in the backyard requesting we play a quick game of "ball".)

4:30-7:00pm- CrAzY during this time!! Here is a list of all the things that are usually going on during this time.... playing ball, giving train rides, playing golf, playing in Leo's ball pit, making faces and smiling at Cece, playing and picking up blocks, Dad's laundry, Mom's laundry, Leo's laundry, Cece's laundry, changing diapers, Leo's dinner prep, feeding Leo, feeding Cece, cleaning up after Leo, getting dinner started for Mom and Dad, Mom and Dad eat dinner while sharing with Leo, unloading dishwasher, loading dishwasher, referring fights between dog and oldest child. Whew!!!

7:00-8:30- Time to start  slowin' down! Thank the Lort! I look forward to this time of night everyday! Get Leo undressed and chase him around the house for a little bit with my "pincher's", give Leo a bath, dry him off, lotion him up, clean out his ears, get his jammies on, undress Cece, give her a bath, dry her off, lotion her up, clean out her ears, get her jammies on, get Leo some milk, turn on Mickey Mouse Clubhouse or Doc McStuffins or Jungle Junction, cuddle with Leo on couch, hold Cece and let her cry until she wears herself out, put Leo to bed if he hasn't already fallen asleep by 8pm, put Cece in her crib as soon as she passes the "limp arm test".

8:30- 9:00pm- Mom and Dad gt ready for bed. We usually watch a little TV, chit chat, or play on the computer. Mom usually goes to bed first and falls asleep within seconds.

*This schedule usually changes a little bit on Tuesdays because Dad has the day off and is able to stay at home with the kido-s. The mornings are a little less stressful and less rushed, because we don't have to get the babes ready to go to the babysitters. I usually am able to sleep in a little bit and take more time getting ready for work. I also leave a little later for work on this day.

* On Wednesday's, and every other Thursday or Friday, the schedule changes because Dad is not home until after Leo and Cece have entered dreamland. These days are slightly more intense cause I am responsible for everything from about 4pm- bedtime.  It's not THAT big of a deal, but it's always more "fun" when Dad is home to help.


Weekend's
6:00am-7:00am- Leo and Cece wake up

7:00am-8:00am- Lay around/play around with kido's while Dad gets ready for work.

8:00am- Dad leaves for work and is never, ever coming back. (or so Leo thinks)

8:00am-9:00am- Leo and Cece eat breakfast

9:00am-11:00am- Play time! Mom plays with Leo while Cece watches. Mom also tries her best to "get stuff done around the house", such as a couple loads of laundry, dishes, pick up "stuff", ect...

11:00am-1:00pm- Leo takes a morning nap sometime between these hours. Sometimes he will fall asleep with mom on the couch, sometimes he will fall asleep in the floor, sometimes he will be placed in his crib and eventually fall asleep on his own. Either way, a morning nap is a MUST for Leo Beck Rolfes.

1:00pm-2:00pm- Lunch time! Leo and Cece both sit in their "chairs" while Mom gets Leo's food ready. Mickey Mouse usually joins us for lunch as well.

2:00pm-5:00pm- Play time, hang out with Mom time, help mom with "stuff" time, ect....

5:00pm-6:00pm- Dinner time for Leo, while Cece watches

6:00pm- Santa, The Lord, The Kin,g Leo's Hero, Dad comes home from work, with the bacon!

6:00pm-7:00pm- Mom and dad eat dinner

7:00pm-8:30pm- Time to start slowin' down! Thank the Lort! I look forward to this time of night everyday! Get Leo undressed and chase him around the house for a little bit with my "pincher's", give Leo a bath, dry him off, lotion him up, clean out his ears, get his jammies on, undress Cece, give her a bath, dry her off, lotion her up, clean out her ears, get her jammies on, get Leo some milk, turn on Mickey Mouse Clubhouse or Doc McStuffins or Jungle Junction, cuddle with Leo on couch, hold Cece and let her cry until she wears herself out, put Leo to bed if he hasn't already fallen asleep by 8pm, put Cece in her crib as soon as she passes the "limp arm test".

8:30- 9:00pm- Mom and Dad get ready for bed. We usually watch a little TV, chit chat, or play on the computer. Mom usually goes to bed first and falls asleep within seconds.

* As you can see, the weekends are a little more 'laxed and "go with the flow". We try to stick with our normal schedule, but things are not as rushed as they are during the week.

*Once January rolls around, our Saturday's are gonna get shaken up a bit because Mom is going back to school and taking 3 classes. (Master's +30 in mind...)  All of which are on Saturdays. Ugh.... the things we do to be able to bring home more bacon.

* Sunday's are MY MOST FAVORITE DAY OF THE WEEK. Dad and Mom are BOTH home all day and this is the day when stuff gets done! I love when we get a chance to go to church together, then go out to breakfast, then run errands, then come home for naps, then spend the afternoon together.  The whole fam damily is together on Sunday's, and it doesn't get any better than that!!

If Money Wasn't an Option (By: Jess)

One of my favorite conversations that Toby and I have is when we sit and talk (fantisise) about what we would do if we won the lottery.

I love this conversation.

We have had it several times before. It always starts out with me saying, "Ok. If we would win the jackpot, what would we seriously do with all that money?"

And then the conversation takes off.... Toby shares his master plan with me, and I add in my suggestions, wants, desires, requests. We talk about how we would tell people and how we would keep it a secret. We talk about the trips we'd take, what we would pay off, what we would put back and save, what we would buy, what we would share with family/friends, what charities we would help. This conversation is my favorite!! I think it's because for at least 30 minutes or so I actually believe we will someday win the lottery!! I actually let myself get carried away in this dream and for a brief moment, I feel like it may actually happen! It's ridiculous. But, sometimes its fun to get caught up in a dream, even if it's a dream that (probably) will never come true.

After our most recent "whatwouldwedoifwewonthelottery" conversation, I began thinking.

What would I do.....REALLY DO, BUY, EXPERIENCE, LEARN, ect..... if money was not an option.

Talk about getting lost in a dream...... I daydreamed about this thought for a long time. Days even. Here is what crossed my mind....

(Sidenote: this is an extremely selfish/materialistic/shallow list. Since this will probably never be a possibility, I didn't take my daydreaming too seriously. )

I would have the most sytlish wardrode known to man and never wear an outfit twice
I would wear the best make-up ever made and have it applied by someone else, daily.
I'd drive a different car everyday
I'd constantly be traveling or on vacation
I'd own a beach house and a house in the mountains
I'd own a privet jet
Las Vegas would be a weekend spot
Leo and Cece would join the "Little Gym" and I would take them everyday cause I wouldn't have a job.
I would be a member of a gym
I would own a vintage/antique diamond ring....like this one....




 















I would get my nails done, get my hair done, get massages, and go to the spa every Thursday.
I would have met Justin Beiber in person (cause I'm sure someone would have to be paid for this to happen)  and have front row seats to all his concerts.
I would take shopping trips to NYC for every season.
I would be a regular customer at Coach, WHite House/Black Market, Guess, Express, Macy's, Pottery Barn, and a lot of boutiques.
I would own a "top of the line" camera and take as many photography classes as I wanted so i would be able to use it.
I would have a PhD in Education
Leo and Cece would never wear an outfit twice
I'd throw a huge New Years Eve party in Las Vegas.....every year.
I'd host formal dinner parties
I'd have a privet chef
I's have a personal trainer
Gertie would have a playmate
Gertie would be professionally pottytrained
I'd have a double stove
I'd have a boat, jet ski, and a "place at the lake"
I'd have a kindle fire, my own ipad, and the newest iphone
I'd own my own resturant and all meals would be free. (I wouldn't work there, of course!)
My closet would get a major makeover. Maybe this.....

I'd take my girlfriends on mini tropical vacations every summer
I'd have hair extensions
I'd be smokin hot
I'd be a regular attendee of every show at the Peace Center
Disney World would be a yearly (week long) trip for my kids
My bathroom would be similar to this......














I'd be a season ticket holder for all OSU football games and attend every home game.
My backyard would look like this....

Ya know what I was thinking while I was making this list?

 Almost all of the things on this "dream list", someome probably already has!

Some (if not most or all) of these things that I can only "dream of" are probably a reality to some people. (The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills comes to mind...)

Anyways- "a dream is a wish your heart makes", right? I mean...it COULD happen? The only way we will EVER win the lottery is if we keep playing it. (as my father-in-law would say)

Cross your fingers!! and toes! and eyes! and your legs! and

Things I Hated in Jr. High (By: Jessica)

As I was watching my little 8th grade kiddies take their exam today, I started to reminisce about my ole Jr High days.....

Thinking about these awkward, embarrassing, torturous days made me have a slight gag reflex and throw up a little in my mouth.

I started re-living the nightmare called  8th grade. How life just plain sucked. How EVERYTHING was hard and how everyday at school was a huge event and making it out alive at the end of the day was a miracle!  How I had no idea who I was or who I wanted to be. I constantly worried about who my real friends were or who I wanted to impress or who I wanted to get to notice me or if my maxi pad was gonna leak through my pants. I wasn't "smart" or "athletic" or "popular" or "funny" or "beautiful". I was just me, whoever the hell that was.

Here are a list of things that I fondly remember as being things that I absolutely, defiantly, without a doubt, HATED while I was in 8th grade.....

1. When my jeans would not "tight roll" correctly and would un-roll everytime I walked down the hall.
2. When my socks would creep down into my shoe
3. When I had "lumps" in my hair if I was wearing a ponytail
4. Report card day
5. Breaded Veal, creamed rice, or taco day in the cafeteria
6. Having to eat lunch in lunch detention with all the hoodlums
7. Getting demerits for talking or forgetting something
8. Having to open up my locker....with a combination
9. P.E. and everything about it
10. Changing clothes in P.E. when I was on my period.
11. Trying to decide where to sit at lunch....everyday
12. When I would be chewing on a pen, and all of a sudden the pen would do (1) of (2) things....     1.)  slip and stab me in the gum or 2.) explode in my mouth
13. When anyone would  look at me and then laugh
14. When my bangs would get too long
15. When I would get my bangs trimmed and I would look like this.....

 

 

 

16. When I would get white flakes in my hair due to too much hairspray

17. When my mouth would bleed from the vast amount of wire inside

18. When the boys would call me "Oklahoma" cause it was (apparently) the flattest state in the U.S. (hilarious)

19. When I would fail a test and have to get it signed

20. When my sister would get straight A's.......and I didn't. Ever. Or even come close. 

21. When I had math class

22. When I had to ride the school bus

23. When my contacts would give me fits

24. When I had to write spelling sentences

25.  When I would pass my "boyfriend" in the hall and be so nervous I would stop breathing

26.  When I would fall asleep on the school bus and wake up when my stop came and felt like 3 days had passed

27. When bread would get stuck in my braces

28. When every boy in my class wanted to "go out" with me....EXCEPT the one boy that I liked.

29. Yearbook signing day and picture trading day

30. When I would stare and daydream at my 8th grade science teacher and then remember he was married with children and would never be my boyfriend.

31. When someone would stack my locker and all my books and personal belongings would spill out into the hallway.

 

Thinking about all this drama and moments that made my life "miserable" while in Jr High allowed me to look at my students a little differently today. I started to sympathize with them, and give them the benefit of the doubt, and feel sorry for them, and smile more at them, and try not to stress them out as much.

 

While "Away in a Manger" played silently in the background and the TRUE meaning of Christmas overcame me, I looked at my students and felt a new kind of love for them. I was proud of them for making it through everyday and proud of them for just keeping their heads above water...cause that was all I was trying to do when I was their age.

 

I understood them more and looked at them as if to say, "I get it. I've been there".

 

Until....

 

someone SCREAMED my name (scaring the dickens out of me) and informed me that there was a "PIECE OF SOMEONE'S WEAVE LAYING ON THE FLOOR" and "I THINK I TOUCHED IT!!! OHMYGAWD!!! CAN I GO SANITIZE?!!"

 

Then, my moment was over.

 

 I snapped back into reality and asked myself, how many more hours til Christmas break?!?! 

 

 

 

 

 



 

 

 

Need. Want. Wear. Read. (By: Jess)

When the kids get older, I want to incorporate this concept into our family Christmas traditions.

 I want Leo and Cece to write a letter to Santa every year, until they stop believing (which will be til they are 30 at least).

I want them to ask Santa for 4 items ONLY.

Something they NEED.
Something they WANT.
Something they will WEAR.
Something they will READ.

I can't wait to start this tradition with them!

 Obviously, they are too young right now.

But, I'm not!!! Here's my list for Christmas 2012....

NEED

New travel coffee mug.

WANT

 

Outdoor fireplace

WEAR 



new running/exercise clothes

READ







Always know..... (By: Jess)

25 things I want Leo and Cece to ALWAYS KNOW....

1. Always know that there is nothing you can't tell your Dad and I. Don't ever be scared of our reaction. Please don't ever keep secrets from us, especially secrets that can cause you harm or someone else harm. We will never turn away from you when you need us the most. Know that.

2. Always know that how you act, behave, and present yourself in public (when your dad and I are not around) reflects directly on US, as your parents. Always make sure that you both are putting us in a positive light. DO the same for yourself as well.

3. Always know that I will NEVER be proud of you if you EVER put your hands on someone else, regardless of the situation. Physical fighting is unacceptable. Period.

4. Always know that if you ever take the Lord's name in vain, there will be consequences. Dad and I will never ignore that.

5. Always know that keeping good grades in school is important, but we will never expect perfection. There will come a time where you will learn how to read, how to add, how to carry the 3, how to tell time, your address, the Gettysburg address, and the Lord's prayer. We will never rush you to learn and you will make us the most proud if you always try you absolute best.

6. Always know that one lie leads to another...and another...and another. Also, its really embarrassing to be caught in one. Avoid that circumstance if at all possible.

7. Always know that I will never care how many friends you have, just as long as you are a good friend to others. Whether you have 1 friend or 50..... be a good friend all the time.

8. Always know that we are your parents first and your friend last. No matter how old you get.

9. Always know that college is not an option. It's a requirement.

10. Always know that whenever you feel like "things can't get any worse", they always can. But, also know that "this too shall pass".

11. Always know that swearing only makes you look ignorant, foolish, mean, and ugly.

12. Always know that happiness is contagious and smiling is lots of fun!

13. Always know that things will not always go your way. That's OK. Move on and wait for it to happen again. Cause it will.

14. Always know that I have seen my fair share of bullying as a teacher. If either of you EVER bully another child I will be heartbroken, embarrassed, and so disappointed in you. NO ONE is below you and you are not above anyone else.  Also, if you ever witness bullying, ignoring it is just as bad as taking part in it.

15. Always know that YOU are YOU. Never be ashamed of who you are. Never be ashamed to be smart. Never be ashamed to wear glasses. Never be ashamed to be a little chubby. Never be ashamed to be a slow reader. Never be ashamed if you like things to be neat and organized. Never be ashamed if you have to count on your fingers when adding and subtracting. Never be ashamed if you are not a fast runner. Never be ashamed to have nice things. Never be ashamed to be proud of yourself for your accomplishments. Never be ashamed if you are successful. Never be ashamed to be average.

16. Always know that it is never, never, never, never acceptable to take a picture of a privet body part and send it to someone. EVER.

17. Leo- always know that you are the only brother Cece will ever have. Ceceilia-  you are the only sister Leo will ever have. Make that count.

18. Always know that personal hygiene is extremely important. You will visit the bathtub or shower everyday, your teeth will always be brushed, your hair will always be combed, and your clothes will always be clean.

19. Always know that "please", "thank-you", "I'm sorry", and "I love you" are very powerful words.

20. Always know that reading books opens up a whole new world.

21. Always know that God gave you your body. He would be very offended if you destroyed it, marked it all up, and shared it with anyone who wants to see it. Take care of it and only share it with people who you trust, love, and respect.

22. Always know that there are (4) people in this world that you need to constantly make proud. Yourself. Your parents. Your grandparents. God. That's it.

23. Always know that having a good a sense of humor will take you far. Never miss an opportunity to laugh at yourself, find the joy in making others laugh (or at least smirk), and always know when NOT to be funny.

24.  Always know that jealousy is a horrible feeling. Don't let it eat you alive. If you ever find yourself being jealous, take it as an opportunity. Focus on what is making you jealous and work to achieve it for yourself. If you can't achieve what is making you jealous, then be happy for the people who have achieved it.

25. Always know that common sense is something that not everyone has.....but YOU DO! Cherish it, use it, and always always choose right over wrong.

Monthly Meal Madness!!! (By: Jess)

At the beginning of every month I get giddy. I get excited. I get restless. I get anxious.

"Why?" you ask.....

Cause I get to go to the grocery store!!!!!!!

No, I'm not kidding. Let me explain....cause I feel that it's necessary to explain such nonsense.

Every month I plan out a meal calendar for our family. I try my BEST to make homemade dinners at least 5 days a week. I plan for us to "eat out" at least 2 times a month. Date night, family dinner at Chick-fil-a, whatever.....  I go to the grocery store once a month and spend between $300-$350. I pride myself on this and take it very seriously. I enjoy all the planning and organizing that goes into this. I don't think anyone else in the family (ahem...tobywilliamrolfes) takes it as seriously or appreciates it as much as I do, but that's another blog entirely. (smooches!)

If you are wondering how this is possible or how I manage to do this......keep reading.

If you don't give a rat's ass and could care less how I plan my monthly dinner menu/grocery list, then keep reading anyway. You obviously have a few minutes to kill.

It all starts with this.....

And this......



 











I print off a blank monthly calendar and a "grocery list" template that I got from my pal, Kerri. (actually...I have an official binder that I keep extra copies of both these documents in, but for the sake of making myself like like a complete weird-o, I'll skip past that.....)

I first fill out the calendar.

I start by crossing out the days when dinner will not be prepared or served by me.

I make note of days that month when we will be out of town, have other plans, the Governor invites us over for dinner, ect....

 I NEVER cook on Wednesday's and every other Thursday or Friday. Those days immediately get a big "X" through them. . These are the days that Toby closes at work, and doesn't get home until 8:30pm or so. Usually, these nights I just "fend for myself" or eat "Leo scraps". Sometimes I will eat leftovers or sometimes I will resort to something frozen or even make a run to McDonald's, Wendy's, or some trash like that.  Some days, when I'm feeling extra fluffy, I'll just skip dinner altogether and obsess about how I wish I could be anorexic. I find joy in crossing out those days. It's the little things

Next, I start filling in the other days with random meals.

I think about what is easiest to cook -vs- what takes more time, what Toby likes, what Leo likes, what we haven't had in awhile (a throwback meal), and finally.....what I like....if there a day or two extra to fill.

I try to include one chicken, seafood, pasta, and red meat meal per week. TRY is the keep work here. Sometimes it happens. Sometimes it just doesn't.

Some of our "go-to" meals or "regular offenders" on the menu are as follows:
- Chicken, Noodles, and Mashed potatoes
-Corned Beef Brisket
- Honey Pecan Salmon
- Chicken Fajita Pizza
-Mexican lasagna
- Pigs feet (kidding! ha!)

Some of my "easy-peasy" meals include:
- Toasted Ham and Cheese sammies
-Homemade tortilla pizzas
- Pasta
- Marinated and grilled chicken or pork chops
- Crock pot meals (cube steak, pork loin, turkey breast, soup, ect...)
- Wine Store Burritos

I usually have a few new recipes that are that I want to try....thanks to my BFF "pintrest"....... and I will normally save those for Saturday's or Sunday's. Those are the days when I have more time to prepare and experiment.

Next, I make out my grocery list. This usually is the part that takes the most time. I usually spend a couple days on this part, if I'm being honest.

I start with a blank sheet of paper. Lined. College ruled. No fringe. (kidding! ha!)

I look at all the meals I am planning on making, and make a list of all the ingredients I will need. This usually includes stuff like meats, fresh vegetables/produce, canned items, and some spices (if I'm out). 

Next, I think about what I want to serve as side dishes. These are usually the same for most meals. Steam fresh rice, steam fresh veggies, garlic bread, and mashed potatoes are some common sides.

After that, I make a list of items we normally need. Dishwasher soap, laundry detergent, toothpaste, shaving cream, Clorox wipes, pop, bottled water, coffee creamer, milk, cereal, paper towels, hemorrhoid cream, tooth picks, antifreeze, mouse traps..... ya know, the normal items.

Since I am a recovering crack junk food addict, I only allow myself to buy (2) junk food items per month. One for Toby and one for me. Toby usually requests iced oatmeal cookies or Doritos, while I usually go for nutella or ice cream, depending on my mood.

Lastly, I will list items that dear sweet Leo Beck requests. These usually consist of "Leo snacks" (Ritz crackers, graham crackers, grapes, blueberries, Cheerios, cheese, vanilla wafers), frozen fruit and frozen mixed vegetables, spaghetti o's, hot pockets, and PB&J uncrustables.

At this point, I have a STELLAR grocery list made up of dinner ingredients, side dishes, normal monthly items, 2 junk foods, and Leo's list.

I then organize it into "categories" on the grocery list template. Not only is this the 2nd time I write my list, but it helps me remember exactly what's on it so I'm not running around the store like a rabid chimp.

I usually plan to go to the grocery store on Tuesday's. This is Toby's day off, so he is available to keep the kiddo's and I will go to the store right after work.

My "route" usually consists of (2) places. Aldie's and Walmart or Bi-lo.

I don't know about some people, but I heart Aldies! Not only do I save BOATLOADS of benjamin's by shopping here, but I love love their produce. It is cheaper and always lasts longer. To each his own. Some people would never be caught dead in Aldies. I'd go there naked. Anything to save a dang dime, right?!

Whether or not I go to Walmart or Bi-Lo usually depends on if I had a chance to skim through coupons or not. If I have a handful of coupons, then I will go to Bi-lo, cause they will double them!!  If I was a huge slacker and didn't gather any coupons (usually the case), then I will just hit up Walmart and buy all the "great value" items I can find.

I try my hardest to spend between $300-$350. Sometimes I do this and sometimes I don't. Depends on what we need that month.

I don't know about you...but I take my time when I go to the grocery store. It's "me time". It my free time and I enjoy it and don't try to take it away from me. K? K.

Anyway- this is how I do things once a month and it works for us. It usually takes me about a week to "get ready", but its worth it to me. Of course we occasionally have to make grocery runs for emergency items , such as milk, diapers, formula, ect.... but you will have that.

SO, at this point you are probably thinking (1) of (3) things....

1. I'm a nutball who plans way too much and desperately needs to find a hobby. (or something along that line....)

2. You are thankful that I shared my magical ways with you and you are going to try to do a monthly meal plan yourself!

3. You could care less and only read this post cause....... well.................you are not sure. You just wasted several minutes of your life that you can never get back. For that, I'm sorry.

Either way.... that's how I attempt organization in my little home. It is what it is. It works for us.... most of the time. I think (hope?) I am just like everyone else...... just trying to keep my head above water and keep swimming. Just trying to save a dollar and make my family happy and keep fed. It's a tough job...... it really is.

Just wanted to share.

Cheerio.

Santa Gifts 2012 (By: Jess)

Leo (21 months old) will be receiving the following gifts from Santa:



Magnadoodle

scoccer "nest" chair

Sock Mnnkey Jack-in-the-box




Mickey Mouse Clubhouse flip book

block table



Toy Train

Cece (4 months old) will be recieving the following gifts from Santa:


books for little girls

this will fit great in her room and this time next year, she will love playing in it!

Gifts from Santa 2011 (By: Jess)

I thought it would be a good idea to keep track of what Santa brings Leo and Cece every year.

Why?

I guess because I think it will be cool for him and Cece to look back in 10, 15, 20, 30 years and see what items Santa thought they would have enjoyed.

 I think it would be neat to know that Santa brought me when I was little.

I'll never forget the year he brought me a typewriter, a light pink bra, the game "Mall Madness" and "Mouse Trap", the movie "Flash dance", a hot pink and neon green hairdryer, a "see through" telephone, "get in shape girl" leg warmers, weights, and cassette tape, Rollerblades, and "Little Sister" books.

Here is what Santa brought Leo in 2011. ( he was 9 months old)


sing-a-ma-jig

hooded towel



toy puppy and toy cell phone

It's Tradition! (by: Jess)

So the holiday's are coming up....fast! Too fast, if you ask me! I always wish the holiday season (November-Jan.) would slow down a bit so people could really ENJOY it. But, that like wishing water would turn into wine.

Anyway....

Since the holidays are quickly approaching, it got me thinking about something I absolutely LOVE.

Traditions.

I love them. Not only do I love traditions, but I love keeping them!! Here are a list of traditions that I love, honor, and obey in my life....

1. Family Beach trip every summer with my in-laws
2. Christmas dinner date with Toby
3. Playing April Fools pranks on my friends and family
4. Black Friday shopping
5. Hosting Thanksgiving every year at my house
6. Beckstedt Family Christmas at Marge and Ralph's and our gift exchange
7. Rolfes family game of "Outburst" and the gift exchange. (always hilarious!)
8. Making Christmas cookie platters for Toby's work, my work, and the McCalls.
9. Keenland fall races/opening day
10. Birthday weekend get-aways for Toby and I's birthdays


While I was thinking about how much I love a good, honored, faithful tradition....I started thinking about how I want to start a lot of traditions with my family and children. Sometimes I think that I love traditions more than the average person. A good tradition is like a promise you keep to yourself ever year and something that you are able to look forward to. Breaking a tradition (especially one that has lasted for years!) is such a disappointment. I hate to see a tradition broken. I know that "things come up" and "things change", but I really think that keeping traditions are important. At least they are to me.

 Here is a list of traditions I would like to start with Leo and Cece. I want to try my best to honor these every year! I want Leo and Cece to look forward to them! I want these traditions to keep our family close throughout the years. I want to honor these traditions and add more as the kids get older. I want to create as many memories for Leo and Cece as I can!

1. Making a Christmas ornament with Aunt Jilly every Thanksgiving Day
2. Leaving a letter for Santa and homemade cookies every year before we drive to Ohio
3. Black Friday shopping
4. 1st day of school shopping
5. Sunday morning pancakes
6. Prayers before bed
7. 2 books a piece before bed
8. Home cooked dinners around the table (at least 3 times a week)
9. Family Beach trip every summer
10. Adopting a family every year at Christmas
11. Cece date night with Dad
12. Leo date night with Mom
13. Report card rewards
14. Sunday School, bible school, youth group, and church camp

I hope I can make these traditions happen.

OGHS Class of 1998 (By:Jess)

I occurred to me recently that I have never been to a class reunion. Granted, my class has only had (1)reunion in the past 14 years, and I was unable to attend. Or didn't want to attend. Or whatever.

I didn't realize (until about a week ago) how long it really has been since I have seen some of my old classmates.

I also didn't realize (until about a week ago) CrAzY FuN it is to "reunite" with people I used to call "friends".

I recently met up with a gal who I was great friends with in HS. Unfortunately after HS we lost touch with one another......until the glory of facebook. Thanks to facebook, we have been able to keep in touch, but we hadn't physically seen each other in about 10 years... give or take a few. Turns out that we were in the same city last Saturday night (thanks again to "the facebook" for documenting our locations) and we met up for a few hugs and about an hour of joyful discussion. It. Was. Awesome. I SO enjoyed seeing her and laughing and reminiscing with her! (Thanks Sara (Ford) Moore for meeting me!!) And it got me thinking.....

There are a lot of other people who I would LOVE to do the same thing with. So here are my thoughts....

Sunday December 23rd
In the evening (8-9ish?)
Nothing "big". No preperation.
Meet for drinks.
Anyone from the class of '98 should just "show up".  No RSVP....
Splinters? The Bomb Shelter? The Red Pig? Someone's house?
I think it'd be AWESOME to just hang out and chat with some of you peeps.

So, my question is,

1998 grads...would you show up? I will if you will.

I will be willing to create an event on facebook for this and send it out to all I have contact with from our class. I can also send email to others who do not have facebook.

That's about all I will do.

 Because there's really nothing else to do. I will spread the word and show up and (hopefully) see you there.

Thoughts? Facebook me, inbox me, email me, text me, or comment on this blog.

If I hear from a lot of people that "this sounds fun", then I WILL SEE YOU ON SUNDAY DECEMBER 23rd! (unless I am having a bad hair day, then I won't come! Lol! Jk! Kinda...)

If I don't hear form anyone, then forget I ever mentioned it!

Stay tuned.......

Never in a Million Years.....(By: Jess)

It has happened. The day has come.

I am doing something I NEVER thought I'd do.
I own something I NEVER thought I'd own.
I'm in a position I NEVER thought I'd be in.

I. Own. A. Van.

(wince)

I cannot believe my husband has convinced me to do this. To drive this. To own this.

Driving a van goes against all I stand for and believe in. It goes against all my morals and all my standards as a mother.

OK...that was a little dramatic. But, I can't believe I have caved like this. I always said I would NEVER drive a van. NEVER. I don't like them. I never have. They are big, bulky, and no matter how hard they try they don't look "cool".

**NOTE** this is just MY opinion, so don't get all defensive if you are a lover of vans. It's fine if you are. I'm just not. And, well, this is MY blog, so I can believe what I want. Boo-yeah.

Anyway- the conversation happened on a Monday. My husband texted me and says, "What do you think about getting a van?"

BAHAHAHA. I laughed at such a ridiculous question and considered simply ignoring such  a stupid text. He knew exactly what my thoughts were going to be. I can almost see him grinning like the Grinch as he typed his text.

I replied with an obvious answer. (which was simply..... "barf".)

Toby brought one home and pulled out all his "car salesman" moves.

Then he made the mistake of putting Leo inside. Leo was smitten with it and would have camped out for days in it if we would have allowed him to.

I, of course, had a look on my face similar to this....




We got one anyway. Nice. We all know where MY opinion stands in this family.

I don't like driving this beast around.

 I feel like I have a tiny head and a GIGANTIC body.

I feel like I'm taking up the entire road, driving like a manic, beeping my blow horn and telling people to "get outta the way! Here I come!!"

 I feel like "Large Marge" driving a semi. (reference from "Pee Wee's Big Adventure" for anyone who has seen this masterpiece of a film)

 I don't feel young. I don't feel sexy. I don't feel stylish or trendy.

I feel like...........I'm driving a van.


But, if I MUST be honest, and real.... I guess it will be useful. I mean, my beloved Pilot was extremely cramped. I had no back seat anymore and I think if I knocked Leo's and Cece's head on the ceiling one more time brain damage would have been a possibility and the Feds would have been called.

Also, when I look in the back and see Leo innocently starting up at the DVD player, that is mounted on the ceiling, watching "Mickey", and being so thrilled, I can't help but put aside all my selfish views and smile. This is for HIM (and her), not ME. I mean, who cares if I feel like an idiot driving this swagger wagon around.... as long as the kido-s are safe and comfortable, that's all that really matters, right?

Right?

Riiiight?


The truth is this.....

1. I have tried REALLY hard to like this vehicle.
2. I hate this vehicle.
3. I'm embarrassed to drive it.
4. Leo loves it.
5. Toby loves it.
6. Cece could care less.
7. No matter what I drive, facts are facts. I'm not young, nor am I sexy, nor am I trendy and stylish....
8. We are stuck with it. Forever. Cheese and rice.

P.S. I'm not gonna lie and say that the scene from "A Christmas Story" where the mother "accidentally" breaks the Leg Lamp didn't cross my mind already. I feel her pain.

Thinking..... (By: Jess)

So, I'm reading this book....


I know. Weird, right?  When Angie, our school librarian, told me about it, I had this incredible urge to read it. I have NEVER read anything of this genre before and thought I'd give it a try.

WOW.

The entire time I was reading this book, I kept thinking in the back of my mind, "As a Christian woman, I shouldn't be reading this....", but I. COULD. NOT. PUT.IT.DOWN.

This man (Pee Wee Gaskins) is.......................... there are no words.

I cannot believe the things he did.

And it got me to thinking.....

Who's at fault? (if anyone)

Apparently, this man is "wired wrong". (ya think?!?)

Apparently, he (medically) doesn't have a conscience.  (ya think?!)

Apparently, he is missing an important part of his brain that prevents people from doing the insane things that this man did.

If this is the case.... here are my questions...

1. Is it his fault that he committed the crimes he did?
2. Why would God make such evil?
3. Did God create this man?
4. Was he born this way....or did his brain develop this way?
5. Was he born "normal" and then as he grew up and developed, did something go wrong?
6. If this man would have had a "better" childhood, would things have been different or was this something that could not have been prevented?
7. Can a person be born without a conscience?
8. If people like this REALLY exist (and apparently they do) then why are we not constantly terrified?!?
9. Is there a place in Heaven for men like this? Apparently, he was a devoted Christian......
10. Does God forgive.....everything??


Just wondering and thinking..... I'd love to hear some of your thoughts.

It's a Guy Thing (By: Jess)

So, I've been in denial for awhile. I've been trying to avoid the truth. But, it is time I accept it and come to grips with reality. It is what it is.  My son hates me.

Ok...maybe "hate" is a strong word. Maybe not the right word to use. But he defiantly is not a mama's boy....at least not right now.....
Leo wants nothing to do with his mama...... and that's the truth. He wants his dad at all times. Only his dad. No one else will do (except maybe Grandpa).

If Leo and I are home, chillin like villians, happy as clams, he still wants his dad.

If he falls down, bumps his noggin, scrapes his knee, pinches his finger, or causes any other bodily damage, my kisses and hugs won't ease the pain. He wants his daddy.

If he is sleepy and wants to cuddle on the couch, it's not Mom he wants to spoon with. It's dad. Only Dad will do.

It's not my arms that Leo run into when I get home from work. It's Dad's.

Toby finds this utterly hilarious and (I think) is secretly loving it!  It's almost like a game....

Toby will be holding Leo and I will be standing next to them. Toby will say, "Go to your mom" and I will hold out my arms, aching for Leo to fall into them! Never the case. What usually happens is that Leo will whine, frown, turn his head away from me, and lay it Toby's shoulder; practically crying at the thought of being pryed from Dad's arms and forced, against his will, into Mom's. Toby laughs. I pout. It's a vicious cycle.

But, I MUST stay positive. I MUST remain calm. I MUST move forward. I MUST have common sense about this....

I keep telling myself... Leo DOES love you. You are HIS MOMMY. No one else will ever play that role. You carried him, you birthed him, you will raise him. Be grateful that he loves his Daddy so much! Be grateful that his Daddy is so involved in his life. Stop being so selfish. There will be a day when we will "want you". He's going through a phase right now. Overall, at the end of the day, YOU are his Mommy and he doesn't have a choice but to love you!!

But, darnit, can he just pay me a little attention?!?!

Life Lately. (By: Jess)

So..... it's been awhile. I have been wanting to write a new post for some time now, but nothing has really struck me as far as topics go. Since my mind is drawing a creative blank, I figured I'd at least come to grips with my life as of now....

1. I still cannot believe I have a DAUGHTER!!! Cece is PREH! She is soooo tiny and petite! Leo was never THIS tiny and I'm loving it! She is still wearing newborn clothes pretty well, but 0-3 months are finally starting to fit....a little! Her belly button finally healed so now she is able to get real baths and she LOVES them! She looks even tinier in her bathtub! She loves to stretch out and wiggle her little toes in the warm water! A standard size washcloth serves as her "bath blanket" and cover her entire body!  She eats every 3-4 hrs and is eating 4 oz at a time. She takes awhile to eat and burp. but the diva cannot be rushed, so I will accommodate! Her cry is adorable and sometimes makes me LOL! Its a mix between a high pitched scream and the meow of a cat. Sounds annoying, I know, but the cuteness of it makes me grin! She is still sleeping in our room in her bassinet, but as soon as I work up the courage to send her packing to her own bedroom, she will make the trip across the living room and down the hall. Until then, she is satisfied being in mom and dads room. She has a little bit of a gooey eye and we have to be sure to keep it wiped out with a warm washcloth! Hopefully it clears up soon! Missy (her nickname given to her by dad) currently weights 10 lbs and is in the 90% in height!! Supermodel?!?! 

2. I still cannot believe I am back to work. I had an entire 1 week off after Cece was born. CrAzY!! I feel the need to explain why this was. I don't really know "who" I am explaining it to, maybe myself?  Anyway...... I only have 12 sick days. I need to be smart about how I use them. I need to save them for the year. I didn't want to use them all the first 2 weeks of school and then not have ANY for the rest of the year! Someone is bound to get sick and I already have a couple personal days planned. So I had to "take one for the team" and get back to the grind. Do I think I overdid it a bit? YEP! Did my doctor have any idea that I was going back to work after only 1 week? NOPE!  What's the most important is that it was MY decision. No one MADE me come back to work so soon. I could have taken all the time I wanted (unpaid of course...except for the 12 days I had).... but to be honest, I was ready to get back in a routine and ready to start this new life with 2 children. "She works hard for the money". (or lack thereof)

3. I'm an anxious mess. I feel nervous/scared all the time. Like I'm gonna do something wrong. It's annoying.  I feel like I am JUST keeping my head above water and things could all fall apart at any second. I'm trying to juggle taking care of Leo and Cece the best I can. I'm trying to take good care of my husband. I'm trying to take good care of myself. I'm trying to take good care of my students. I'm trying to be a good friend, sister, daughter, and employee. I feel like I'm doing a good job... but if I let my guard down or if I loose focus for just a hot second, things will fall apart. Not a good feeling. Maybe I should talk to "The Hoff" (AKA, Dr. Hoffman) about all this drama....

4. I love Leo and Cece so much it hurts and I have a fear that someone is gonna take them away from me. Normal? Maybe. Maybe not.

5. I have received AMAZING help from my in-laws and my mom! Words cannot express how thankful I am for all their help! Our babysitter got sick and needed to take 3 weeks off. Toby and I about cried! (Well, I DID cry!) Thankfully my in-laws were still here visiting and my amazing mother-in-law offered to stay as long as we needed her! MAJOR sigh of relief.

6. Leo is obsessed with Gertie. Poor Gertie. She sleeps with one eye open at all times. Bless it.

7.  As much as I LOVE all the help I am getting from my family, Toby and I are sooooo ready to "try this on our own".

8. We are taking a trip to KY in October and I am sooooo excited about it!

9. I still have about 30 lbs to loose. Sigh.......

10. I have tried several new recipes from Pintrest and LOVE them!! Check out the "recipe" section of this amazing blog to see them....

11. Leo is such a "daddy's boy" and sometimes it breaks my heart. He wants nothing to do with me at times and I hate it. *sad face*

12. This year marks my 10th year teaching. Every year I enjoy it just as I did my first year. Ok.... maybe not.... but I really do love my job! Really.... I do. Seriously. I do. Really.

13. I got out all my fall decorations the other day and I was so flippin excited about it!! It was even a little chilly outside (80 degrees!) so it seemed like the perfect day for re-decorating! I just have to get up in the attic and get out my scarecrows and buy a few mums from the store, and 37 Lazy Willow Drive will be all decked out!

14. Saturday, September 15th is "D-day" for me. I will have both kids, all by myself, for 8 hrs! I'm anxious, excited, and nervous. Basically, I'm just ready to do it and have it be normal.

And that is where we are......as of now. 

Breathe and keep swimming.

Whore-Moans (By: Jessica)

Whore-Moans.

Hormones.

However you spell it, they can really throw you for a loop.

For anyone who has NEVER experienced their hormones getting thrown completely outta whack, making you totally loose your s**t, then I bow down to you.......and I secretly am giving you the evil eye and hoping you step in a mud puddle while wearing white sandals.

For anyone who HAS experienced their hormones getting thrown completely outta whack, making you totally loose your s***, then you are "my people".

Hormone imbalance (depression, anxiety, mood swings, bipolar disorder, PMS....whatever) is something I struggle with.....pregnant or not. (but totally worse when I'm pregnant) It sucks. I hate it. It's like an annoying wart that keeps coming back after it's been frozen off.

It's amazing how these little bit**es can totally control a person's life.  My life.

Seriously..... they can make me feel totally amazing, like I have everything in control, I'm overflowing with happiness, everyone loves me and I love everyone, birds are chirping, the sun is shining, I'm pooping rainbows, and my world is "just perfect and as it should be. ("hormone high" as I like to call it and totally unrealistic) I'm not fond of this feeling cause it's a total pump fake.

Or, they can make me feel  like I am a total screw up, everyone is against me or hates me, and  all my life consists of is an overstuffed arm chair, snickers ice cream, and Micky Mouse Clubhouse. Hopeless, helpless, gloom, and doom. Fun, huh?

My favorite feeling is the one where I feel normal. Like myself. That's the best one, and most common one for the most part. But sometimes, when I least expect it, BAM, sucker punched, stabbed in the back, blind sided, clothes-lined, they attack and let me down. Every time.

I didn't always live like this. This glorious chemical reaction within my body happened when Leo Beck Rolfes entered my life. Bless his heart.

I like to think I have this all under control. I mean, I "man-ed up" and told my Dr that I was going totally ape-s***, and he smiled at me, hugged me, and gave me some magic beans. They really do help keep things in control, thank Goodness. But, they also fail me at times and need to be given a pep talk.  Nobody's perfect.

God bless my husband. That's all I have to say about that.

My 'mones have been really working overtime these last 9 months. I am 100% certain it is because I am having a girl/ Her hormones and mine together....... what a brewing pot of bubbling estrogen!!!

I knew from very early on in this pregnancy that I was in trouble. I suddenly found myself in the parking lot of Chick-fil-a, Leo in the backseat, bawling my eyes out while talking to Toby on the phone. Well, I actually wasn't talking, more like blubbering. I know I scared the be-jeezus out of Toby and the poor guy didn't know what to do!  He asked me if I was planning on eating at Chick-fil-a and I let out a loud howl and screamed "NO! I have no idea where I'm going! I don't even like Chick-fil-a!!!' He (of course was speechless..... wouldn't you be?) and I then whispered, "Ok. bye." He didn't call me back right away....

So there I am, overcome with sadness and tears, barely able to catch my breath. A feeling I am totally not used to. I am NOT a crier. I do not cry or get emotional easily. I cannot cry on demand or bring on tears when I get a traffic ticket. (life would be a lot easier if I could do that....) So this spell I was experiencing in the Chick-fil-a parking lot, was new to me. With the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse theme song playing in the background, I seriously thought the world was ending. It. Was. Terrible.

Some other events that have occurred due to my hormones messin' with me are as follows.....

1. Toby accusing me of throwing away his nose-hair trimmer and I screamed at him for a solid 4 minutes without taking a breath.

2. Toby casually mentioned that he needed to vacuum the carpet. I (my hormones) took that comment very personally.

3. Toby innocently asked me if Leo and I played outside today. This resulted in me looking at him like this:

My poor hubby...... God bless him. Seriously.

Anyway- this post serves a few purposes.

1. I needed to vent a bit and laugh at myself a little.

2. I need to verify to myself that everything I am experiencing concerning my hormones is totally outta my control and I can't help it. It's. Not. My. Fault.

3. To let others know that they are not alone if they too sometimes loose their s**t.

4. To let my husband know that I love him more than he will ever know and how much I appreciate him putting up with the "whores" in my life.



Midweek Confessions (Part 13) By: Jess

I don't feel like I have a TON to confess right now, but I am itching to write SOMETHING, so here it goes.....

Go to E's blog and check out some other confessions!

1. I'm possibly getting induced next week.....Tuesday or Wednesday. I will find out for sure on Monday. My doctor asked me why I wanted to be induced, to which I responded, "Dr. Hoffman.... I've got things to do!" Ready or not, Ceceilia, you're comin!!

2.  I'm excited and nervous about school starting. Word on the street is that we are getting a GREAT bunch of kids coming into the 8th grade, to which I am soooo grateful! Also, I'm thrilled about NOT being pregnant this school year! It's amazing how much my love for my job changes when I'm "with child". I'm a tid bit nervous starting the school year with a newborn! I am not taking any maternity leave cause I NEED my days for the rest of the year. I have NO IDEA how I am gonna do this....but I'm sure I will figure it out! I have a feeling coffee and energy drinks will be my new BFF's.

3. I have worn the same outfit for the last 3 months. Mesh basketball shorts and a WS Hornet t-shirt. I'm not proud of it and CANNOT wait to get dressed in the morning and put on an actual outfit, with accessories, and (wait for it...) REAL SHOES!!

4. I have recently developed a love (addiction? craving?) for Kraft cheese singles. I know it is not "real cheese" but it tastes so dang good.

5. I got my nails done the other day and paid extra to get the gel polish that is SUPPOSED to last longer. It literally peeled off every nail within 3 days. Nice.

6. Leo is ALL BOY! I seriously think it will take him falling off the coffee table or flipping over the side of the couch and hurting himself, to understand that what he is doing is dangerous!!! Apparently Mom and dad telling him to "get down" is not working.

7. Word cannot express how excited I am to go to the beach for 2 days with my husband....minus kids.

8. I have nothing planned for dinner until August 23rd. Everyone is gonna have to fend for themselves.

9. Trying to organize and plan when everyone is going to come visit us after Cece is born was total chaos and almost killed me.

10. I have contacts that have been waiting for me to pick up at the eye doctor for 3 weeks and a percription waiting for me to pick up at CVS for 2 weeks. I simply don't want to pay the money. Call me cheap. Call me lazy. What-ev.

11. I LOVE LOVE LOVE it when I ask Leo to "gimme a kiss" and he does it! Melts. My. Heart.

12. I'm totally obsessed with the new reality show NY MED. Awesome! Tuesday nights! Watch it!

11. Toby came home from work the other day and asked me if "I took Leo outside to play today?" A very innocent question to the average human being. Not to me. I proceeded to tell him, "No. I didn't take him outside to "play". #1- him "playing" means me chasing him around the house and neighborhood so he doesn't kill himself. #2- When you weigh close to 200 lbs and are carrying a watermelon inside your body, that is constantly karate chopping your organs, the DEAD LAST thing you want to do if go "play" outside. #3- 98 degrees feels like 1,249 degrees to me.  His question made me so mad, I went to bed at 6:30pm and didn't speak to him for almost 2 days. I'd be lying if I said I was completely over it.

And I think we should end on that happy note. :)

Blogger 411 Link-Up with "Mrs. to Mama" (by: Jess)

So I have been following this GREAT blog called "From Mrs. to Mama" for several months now!

CHECK IT OUT!

I love it! It's intresting to me cause she (Becky) is a cool gal who handles it all....work, wife, mama.

Like me.

Or at least I try darn hard to handle all that!

 I'm sure I don't do it as brillantly as her.  I look forward to reading her posts and maybe even learning a thing or two! But, sometimes I feel like a stalker..... I feel like I know her but she dosen't know me. It makes me feel like a creeper.....mainly cause I read her blog sooooo much!! And because of THIS conversation that happened between my hubby and I.......

Me: Leo needs a new sippy that dosen't leak!
Toby: What kind should we get?
Me: Well, my friend, Becky, uses this kind. (show Toby picture of cup online)
Toby: Ok, we will try it. Who's "Becky"?
Me: Oh.....well.... I guess we are not really "friends".......
Toby: What!?!?
Me: I mean. I know her, but she dosen't know me.
Toby: CREEPY.
Me: I read her blog.
Toby: so just because you read her blog, you think you two are friends?
Me:  Yeah....that is kinda creepy.

So, when she offered a link-up to get to know her readers, I figured it was time I revealed myself! I know that I'm not THAT AMAZING that I just HAVE to share all details of myself with her and her million readers..... but I just wanted to introduce myself and say "Hey. I'm Jessica. We have a lot in common. I enjoy your blog. Thanks for writing and sharing!" That's all. Maybe we can become cyber-friends? One can never have enough......

411 Blogger Link-Up

with

"From Mrs. to Mama" 

1. How long have you been blogging? And what got you started on blogging? Has your blog changed?
I have been blogging for about 1 1/2 years. My BFF, Lindsey, and I share this blog. She approached me with the idea of starting it. I wasn't thrilled about the idea and (to be honest) bloggers kinda annoyed me...... but I love the girl and she really wanted to start one.... so I said "sure! Why not?!".  From the first post, I was hooked! I never realized how much I wanted to say, share, and put down in the memory books. This blog QUICKLY became my own personal journal and scrapbook for my kido-s. I want Leo and Cece to be able to read through all the posts, years and years from now, and learn a little more about their Mom and what was going on in HER life. On our blog we talk about a lot of things! Some posts are serious. Some are funny. Some are just plain real. And some are just plain random. We share a lot of recipes on it as well.  Thanks to Becky (author of "From Mrs. to Mama") I am going to make a blog book for every year of our blog. (blog2print.com)  I'm crazy proud of it. I love it.

2. Did you go to college? If so where, and what did you study?
I went to the University of Findlay (with Lindsey), in Findlay OH, for my undergrad. I majored in middle childhood education and recieved a teaching degree in English and Social Studies for grades 4-9.  I taught 7th and 8th grade for about 5 years before I continued my education. I then went to Columbia College, in Columbia SC, where I recieved my Master's degree in Divergent Learning.  I currently teach 8th grade Social Studies and 7th and 8th grade Character Education at a very "cool school" in South Carolina that I totally adore!

3. Where have you traveled?
Not really anywhere extremely thrilling. I've been to Las Vegas (my FAV!), Disney World (several times on school field trips), The Outer Banks in NC, Panama City Beach, Ft. Myers Beach, Daytona Beach in FL, Little Rock AK (for a wedding), NYC (senior class trip), Washington DC, Charleston SC, Hollywood CA (my sister used to live there) and The Bahammas. Some places I want to travel to before I kick the bucket are: Anywhere in the New England area, New orleans, San Francisco, England, Italy, Hawaii, and Bora Bora.

4. If you won the lottery, what would be the first thing you would buy?
Beach House or tickets and accomodations to an AMAZING tropical vacation with my hubby!!

5. What are your 3 biggest pet peeves?
 Concieded people. Ugly language. People with no sense of humor.

6. What is your favorite movie?
Omg. That's a tough one...... Under the Tuscan Sun. (and about 1,000 more!)

7. What is your drink of choice; wine, beer, or liquor. Or Water, Soda, Tea?
Red Wine, Dirty Martini's, Blue Moon with an orange, Corona. I also like Coke, water with Mio Sweet Tea flavor, and Diet Lipton Critus Green Tea.

8. What is something you enjoy to do when you have me time?
Shop for deals at Ross, Target, Dollar Store, Goodwill, and yard sales. I also love to get my nails done, try new recipes, and watch reality TV like Real Housewives, Teen Mom, and Dance Mom's.

9. If you could have a $10,000 shopping spree to one store, which store would it be?
NY and Co. (I still call it "Learner") or JCP.

10. What day would you love to relive again?
The day my son was born! Such happiness and excitement!!

11. If your life was turned into a movie... what actor would play you?
Maybe Cameron Diaz? NOT because she looks anything like me or our bodies are similar..... cause we couldn't look more physically different from one another.... but because she always seems to play fun roles. She a little comedic, she's a "girl's girl", always has some sort of man problem, can sometimes be a little rough around the edges, and always has a good time.
Yeah, that's be a good cast.

12. What are the jobs you had in high school/college/the early years?
High School- Worked as a file clerk in my dad's doctor's office in the summer time. I also was a table busser at a local rib restaurant in town and I taught dance lessons one night a week.
College- Waitress at a local restaurant and worked retail at JCP.
Early Years- 7th grade English teacher, 7th grade Social Studies teacher. 7th and 8th grade Creative Writing teacher, summer school teacher.
Currently- 8th grade Social Studies

13. Show us a picture from high school or college.

Me in High School. I'm the only one with brown hair! 

College. I'm standing in the back row, last one on the right, pink two-piece.

Most current. My husband and I at a baby shower that was thrown for us by our bible study group. We are the couple on the left. Shower was thrown in May. Baby is due early August!



14. If you could travel anywhere in the world, all expenses paid, where would you go?
Bora Bora. I've always wanted to go somewhere tropical with my hubby!

16. Show us the most current picture of you or you and your family.

This was taken in March. It was Leo's 1st birthday party! My husband, Toby is on the right and I am holding Leo!

16. Where do you see your life 5 years from now?
2 kids. Leo will be 6 and Cece will be 5. Still living in our home in Simpsonville, SC. I will still be teaching at the same school and Toby will (hopefully) still be working at Benson's, but maybe in another position? I will be 37 years old in 5 years (yikes?!?!) and hopefully we will have taken the kido-s to Disney already or be getting ready to! I hope, pray, and wish to God that our dog, Gertie is still alive and very much apart of our family! I can't even think about life without her.  I don't want THAT much to change in 5 years time.... I'm pretty darn happy with what we've got goin and I hope it continues!!! xoxox